Oops! She Did It Again.

i didn't post all weekend partly because i had nothing interesting to say and partly because J's desktop, from which i do my weekend posting, has been attacked by a gazillion pop-ups. probably something J and/or i accidently clicked on. now we've got animated bugs simulating various sexually positions and ads telling us we have spyware installed on our computer. the fuckers. J's got his laptop, but since he clearly blames me for the infestation, he won't let me near it. i have a computer at my place, but i don't have it hooked up to the internet anymore. oh well.

saturday night J and i went to wedding. (not j lo and marc anthony's -- we were invited to that one but we couldn't make it out to LA in time). it was a beautiful wedding, but it made me realize that i don't really care for weddings. i'm never wearing anything remotely comfortable. i'm stuck sitting with people i don't always feel like making small talk with, and i always end up drinking a little too much and feeling like ass the next day. (not an ass, just ass -- there's a difference). anyway, before J, i used to go to weddings by myself. i'm fairly social and outgoing. in the right conditions, i can even be the life of the party. but J is a little bit more shy. and although a knew a handful of people, he knew no one. he didn't even remember that the bride and groom had come to our wedding. oh well. so i ended up worrying about him the whole time. next time friends of mine get married and we're invited i'll go alone. there's no reason for both of us to be tortured.

other than that, nothing new.